Peacemakers

October 8, 2017

Matthew 5:1-2, 9, Romans 12:17-18, 21

There is a big difference between a peacekeeper and a peacemaker. A peacekeeper avoids conflict in order to avoid its temporary discomfort. A peacemaker embraces conflict in order to seek lasting peace. This happens in our homes all the time. We talk passed each other until someone leaves or goes to sleep in order to “keep the peace.” It is much harder to face the difficult realities of conflict and what stands behind an initial outburst or confrontation. Peacemakers are willing to tell and hear the truth even when it hurts. Apologize when they are wrong and forgive and let go when something wrong has been done to them.

Are you more of a peacekeeper or a peacemaker in your family? Explain.

What steps might you need to take to become a stronger peacemaker in your family?

What things most often cause conflicts in your family? How well have you handled these conflicts?

Describe a time when you told the truth in love by confronting the issue and not the person. What did you learn from your experience?

Why do think so many families into today’s world have accepted conflict as a regular part of life?