October 8, 2017
Matthew 5:1-2, 9, Romans 12:17-18, 21
There is a big difference between a peacekeeper and a
peacemaker. A peacekeeper avoids conflict in order to avoid its temporary
discomfort. A peacemaker embraces conflict in order to seek lasting peace. This
happens in our homes all the time. We talk passed each other until someone
leaves or goes to sleep in order to “keep the peace.” It is much harder to face
the difficult realities of conflict and what stands behind an initial outburst
or confrontation. Peacemakers are willing to tell and hear the truth even when
it hurts. Apologize when they are wrong and forgive and let go when something
wrong has been done to them.
Are you more of a peacekeeper or a peacemaker in your
family? Explain.
What steps might you need to take to become a stronger
peacemaker in your family?
What things most often cause conflicts in your family? How
well have you handled these conflicts?
Describe a time when you told the truth in love by
confronting the issue and not the person. What did you learn from your
experience?
Why do think so many families into today’s
world have accepted conflict as a regular part of life?
